What Is the Autism Grief Cycle?

October 18, 2025

The autism grief cycle refers to the range of emotions parents may experience after their child receives an autism diagnosis. It’s a natural, emotional response not to the child themselves, but to the expectations parents once had about their child’s development and future.

This process often mirrors the stages of grief: denial, anger, bargaining, sadness, and acceptance.


Parents may initially feel shocked or overwhelmed, wondering what autism means for their child’s life. Over time, as they learn more about autism and see their child’s strengths, those feelings often evolve into understanding, acceptance, and hope.


It’s important to know that this emotional process is normal, and it doesn’t mean you love your child any less. Support from professionals, community groups, and therapies like Applied Behavior Analysis (ABA) can help families move through the grief cycle with strength and optimism.


At Achieve Behavioral Therapy, we provide compassionate, family-centered ABA therapy in New Jersey and North Carolina, helping both children and parents thrive through understanding, progress, and care.


Need guidance after your child’s diagnosis? Contact us today!


SOURCES:


https://www.healthline.com/health/stages-of-grief


https://www.cruse.org.uk/understanding-grief/effects-of-grief/five-stages-of-grief/


https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/giving-voice/202402/the-spectrum-of-loss-grief-through-the-autistic-lens


https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC6926999/


https://www.europeanreview.org/wp/wp-content/uploads/7698-7708-1.pdf


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