Autism Parenting: Understanding the Hardest Parts and Finding Support

September 23, 2025

I’ve had the privilege of working closely with hundreds of families raising children with autism. Over the years, I’ve been asked the same question again and again: “What’s the hardest part of raising a child with autism?”


The truth is, there’s no single answer. Autism is a spectrum, and every child—and every family—experiences it differently. For one parent, the hardest part may be navigating communication barriers. For another, it could be the constant stress of meltdowns in public places. And for many, the weight lies in balancing emotions, family life, and the practical realities of therapy, schooling, and support.


In this blog, I’ll walk you through the most common challenges I hear about from families, while also sharing insights into how we, as therapists, support parents through these experiences.


Understanding the Emotional Journey of Autism Parenting

The emotional side of raising a child with autism is often the hardest to explain to someone who hasn’t lived it. Parents tell me they experience both overwhelming love and overwhelming worry at the same time.


There are moments of celebration—when a child says a new word, makes eye contact, or shows independence—but also moments of deep exhaustion.


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  • How can I cope with the challenges of raising a child with autism?

    Coping starts with support. Building a strong network of therapists, educators, and other parents can make a big difference. ABA therapy also helps by teaching children skills that reduce stress at home and in daily routines.


  • Does raising a child with autism get easier over time?

    Yes, many parents find that things get easier with the right support and strategies. As children gain new skills through therapies like ABA, and parents learn effective tools, daily life often becomes more manageable.


  • How does ABA therapy help parents of autistic children?

    ABA therapy doesn’t just help children—it helps parents too. Therapists provide strategies for communication, behavior management, and daily living skills, which reduces stress and makes family life more balanced.


Sources:



  • https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC11592025/
  • https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC8001702/
  • https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC5593098/
  • https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S0882596318300125
  • https://www.nhs.uk/conditions/autism/autism-and-everyday-life/help-for-families/


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